Sure – some people become awful by choice – but most don’t.
They just become so entrenched that they refuse to wonder whether they’re the obstacles.
It’s easier not to wonder.
The more you do the easier it gets and the harder it would be to admit as entrenched as you are – that you’re in a rut – not a groove after all.
It could happen to any of us.
If you don’t think it could happen to you – if you’re insulted by the insinuation that it could – there’s a chance it already has.
After all – awful people are the last to admit that they could be awful.