We live in the age of envy.
Career envy – kitchen envy – children envy – food envy – upper arm envy – holiday envy.
You name it there’s an envy for it.
Human beings have always felt what Aristotle defined in the fourth century BC as pain at the sight of another’s good fortune – stirred by “those who have what we ought to have” – though it would be another thousand years before it would make it on to Pope Gregory’s list of the seven deadly sins.
But with the advent of social media says Ethan Kross – professor of psychology at the University of Michigan who studies the impact of Facebook on our wellbeing – ‘envy is being taken to an extreme’.
We are constantly bombarded by ‘Photoshopped lives’ he says ‘and that exerts a toll on us the likes of which we have never experienced in the history of our species.
And it is not particularly pleasant’.