To be honest we’re kind of used to not being taken seriously.
To being told we don’t really exist – that we’re either gay or straight and to just pick one – that we’re confused or ‘just experimenting’ or that we’re greedy – slutty or fickle.
We get this from heterosexual people but also from people who identify as firmly gay and lesbian.
It can feel like getting picked last for dodgeball.
We’re just standing out here – not a member of any team.